{"id":2100,"date":"2014-06-16T22:28:22","date_gmt":"2014-06-16T22:28:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/1951d95ad8.nxcli.net\/?p=2100"},"modified":"2024-08-21T06:01:08","modified_gmt":"2024-08-21T10:01:08","slug":"cheating-when-children-are-involved","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/myaiowebstaging.com\/thepiagency\/cheating-when-children-are-involved\/","title":{"rendered":"Cheating When Children Are Involved"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve had this nagging suspicion for so long that he\u2019s cheating. All the red flags are up: the phone calls, the late arrivals home at night, and he activated that gym membership that he stopped using after the first year of marriage. Then he comes home and his face lights up when the kids come running to him. Suddenly he\u2019s more patient with them, more caring. Even if he is cheating, the kids are happy and they need him. Maybe all of this is easier if you just don\u2019t know.<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-14234 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/myaiowebstaging.com\/thepiagency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Cheating-When-Children-Are-Involved.jpg\" alt=\"Cheating When Children Are Involved\" width=\"2240\" height=\"1260\" srcset=\"https:\/\/myaiowebstaging.com\/thepiagency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Cheating-When-Children-Are-Involved.jpg 2240w, https:\/\/myaiowebstaging.com\/thepiagency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Cheating-When-Children-Are-Involved-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/myaiowebstaging.com\/thepiagency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Cheating-When-Children-Are-Involved-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/myaiowebstaging.com\/thepiagency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Cheating-When-Children-Are-Involved-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/myaiowebstaging.com\/thepiagency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Cheating-When-Children-Are-Involved-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/myaiowebstaging.com\/thepiagency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Cheating-When-Children-Are-Involved-2048x1152.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2240px) 100vw, 2240px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It is easier to believe if you never go looking the family can be happy. If you knew the truth you\u2019d want to leave him on the principle of the matter. But in the end your kids need their father right? Knowing the truth would tear your family apart. Believe it or not, avoiding it to protect your children can still hurt them. Children are inherently sensitive to trouble in the household and not addressing it can cause a lot more damage than actually addressing it.<\/p>\n<p>There are a lot of factors to consider. The first being, do you really have to know? It\u2019s one thing to brush off him being home 20 minutes late once because of traffic, but when you find yourself needing to rationalize a reason to go through his phone it might be time to admit there is a trust issue in the relationship. Before you jump straight to the accusations think through your concerns and keep the following Do\u2019s and Don\u2019ts in mind.<\/p>\n<h2>Don\u2019t<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Don\u2019t immediately go asking your children or their friends about what your spouse is up to when you are not around. It can open them up to feeling as though they were part of the affair by not telling you sooner, or that they did something wrong by lying to you. Until you\u2019re sure there is something going on its best to keep them out of it. When taking steps to find out the truth, keep it discreet.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t vent to your children about your suspicions. It can put a strain on their own relationship and can even feel like a burden to them to have the knowledge that something is wrong.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t confront your spouse with your children present. It can be traumatizing and chances are having them present won\u2019t prevent yelling or arguments.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t try to hide your feelings. When they start asking what\u2019s wrong instead of telling them about your suspicions, just say you have things on your mind, but it\u2019s not their fault and they don\u2019t need to worry.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Do<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Do once the truth is in the open with you and your spouse decide what to tell your children together. Presenting a united front can lessen the <a href=\"https:\/\/childandfamilyblog.com\/how-to-protect-your-child-against-adversity-pace-methods\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">impact and prevents your children<\/a> from having to feel as though they have to choose a side.<\/li>\n<li>Do be honest with your children about your feelings. Chances are they can sense it, denying it just makes them feel like maybe you can\u2019t tell them because they are the cause of it.<\/li>\n<li>Do reaffirm they are not the cause of the fighting between you and your spouse. They may never say they feel it\u2019s their fault, but they may still be feeling it.<\/li>\n<li>Do keep communication open. In the end you know your children best. If you feel like they need to talk about it more don\u2019t hide from the conversations. Once they can verbalize and understand what is wrong they can begin to move forward from it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you are having suspicions about your spouse a Private Investigator can help you discreetly find out what your spouse hasn\u2019t been telling you. Todd Redding is a veteran licensed private investigator that specializes in affair discovery, cheating spouse and alimony private investigations. The PI Agency is a 20 year Atlanta, Georgia based private investigation agency that caters to the needs of domestic and civil private investigations throughout Georgia, Alabama and Florida. You don\u2019t have to face this difficult situation alone, please call <a href=\"https:\/\/myaiowebstaging.com\/thepiagency\/\">The PI Agency<\/a>, 1-888-777-0683.<\/p>\n<p>Best of all, \u201cOur advice is always free.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve had this nagging suspicion for so long that he\u2019s cheating. All the red flags are up: the phone calls, the late arrivals home at night, and he activated that gym membership that he stopped using after the first year of marriage. 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